Do you reward and de-stress yourself with alcohol, and ready to stop?

These days, it’s not uncommon to have a glass of wine to “destress” and “reward” yourself after the kids go to bed, and then get together with your girl friends on the weekend and drink more wine.
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But then eventually, that one glass of wine turns to 2, and 2 turns to 3…and so forth.

Suddenly, you notice you wake up feeling crappy and your energy levels crash throughout the day. You have brain fog.  You crave sugar.

And yet, as much as you tell yourself that you won’t have wine anymore…you end up giving in.

But…you still can function in life normally, so you justify that it’s okay to drink again.

Sound familiar?

Humorous photos like this make drinking wine seem like it’s a totally normal way to cope with life.

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Our society has “normalized” drinking as if it is okay for people to hide behind the glamour of drinking wine as a way to destress, and paints a picture that everyone else is doing it too- so it’s okay right? 

Wrong.

Answer the following questions honestly:

Do you crave wine, and have a hard time saying NO to it?

Is your drinking affecting your mental clarity?

Your digestion?

Creating low energy level?

Low mood and/or moodiness?

Gaining Weight?

Do you have healthy ways to cope with stress that do not involve alcohol or food?

Here’s the thing:

Alcohol and food are ways to HIDE from dealing with the real issues. It’s much easier (temporarily) to turn to food/alcohol so that you don’t have to feel uncomfortable about the issues in your life.  I also see clients who often use food/ alcohol as a way to reward themselves after a stressful day.

I would highly recommend working with a coach or therapist to support you in finding healthy ways to deal with your emotions and address your struggles. Trying to stop patterns alone is not easy, and having a professional who is trained to help you shift your mindset and transform your life is critical.

Other healthier activities include talking to your medical doctor or naturopathic doctor if you think you are suffering from depression or anxiety. Often times, people use alcohol to self-medicate, which is not actually going to support you in the long run.

YL Stressaway.jpgA natural resource you could use to support your mental, emotional, physical and spiritual need is essential oils.  Oils have healing and transformative properties in mind, body and spirt. There are a lot of research that backs up aromatherapy as a very effective and beneficial way to help you alleviate undesirable symptoms in mood, hormones, body chemistry, and physiology.

I love using Young Living Essential oils personally and professional, when I am working with my clients because of the purity, integrity of these oils- they are non-GMO, organic, and pure.

Essential oils have been around for thousands of years, providing calming and relaxing effects, a healthy energy boost, reducing stress,  and promotion of an overall feeling of well being. Essential oils complement these natural therapy choices like acupuncture, yoga, and meditation.  The following oils can support you to wean off alcohol.

Please always work with a professional who is well versed in supporting you mentally, emotionally, spiritually and understands the use of oils for effective results.

The following essential oils may be of value to people in recovery:

1. Ginger Oil: Since your body itself takes a tremendous physical toll from excessive and regular consumption of alcohol, particularly the liver, ginger oil actually does demonstrate some ability to prevent damage to the liver. Ginger oil is also a mild stimulant. This means that it may lift mood and increase mental clarity.

2. Black Pepper Oil: It has been suggested that black pepper essential oil can have tremendously beneficial detoxification benefits in some people both by stimulating extra sweat and urine output.

3. Lavender oil  helps people become calm and relaxed. Great if you want to get in the mood for sleep or just want to unwind at the end of a busy day.
4. Ylang Ylang is another essential oil that is believed to be good for relaxation.
5. Lemon oil is believed to enhance mood and make people feel like they have more energy. There is also some evidence to suggest that it can help people deal better with stress.

6. Peppermint oil Great for relieving mild headaches, nausea – which are often symptoms of people going through withdrawals.

7.  Jasmine  lifts the mood and can be used as a mild antidepressant.

8.  Pine is also a stimulant that can lift mood.

If you’re wanting some life coaching support to learn how to take control of your wine drinking or emotional eating, then schedule a coaching discovery call here.

If you’re wanting to order some of these oils to get started, click here to start your own FREE Young Living account to purchase them at wholesale prices!

FREE 5-DAY SELF LOVE VIDEO SERIES

FB cover - Embrace Inner BA (4).pngAre you stuck in the cycle of try, fail, hate yourself, and then try all over again?

Hi! I am RosAlyn Fung, a Self-Love Life and Business Coach, and I’m here to change your mindset so you can live a kick ass life!

There was a time when I was imprisoned by the thoughts of food. I obsessed over what I was supposed to eat and when I could eat next. It got to the point I couldn’t think about much else. I was stuck and life was miserable. I was not doing all the things that brought me joy and happiness and fulfilment because I was waiting for me to get to the perfect size so that I could live the life of my dreams.

Is that how you feel? The perfect life is on the other side of a number on the scale, more money, or more time?

When I got to the perfect size, and everything was SUPPOSED to change, I found I still wasn’t happy. That is when I realized that your life is not determined by your size. Joy and fulfillment in your life is determined by how you think about your life.

So, if you want to become more comfortable in your skin,

if you want to unleash that inner badass that is just waiting to come out but is hidden by all this fear and shame and lack of self-confidence,

if you want to drown out that negative voice in your head that says I can’t, I shouldn’t, I’m too fat or too old or feel ugly, I have this awesome FREE 5-Day Video Series for you now called Embrace Your Inner Badass with food, body image, self-care, money mindset & SELF-WORTH.

I am so excited to show you some practical tips to get you started on embracing your inner badass so you can live a life WITHOUT LIMITS!

JOIN ME HERE!

Facebook Live Deep, Insights and Tips on Food, Body Image, Boundaries, Self-Care Struggles

 

Boy! Do I have a GOODIE FOR you that I’m Super excited to share with you!!!
It’s my first time doing a Facebook live hour long video with deep, insights and strategies to start helping you shift out of common struggles that my E-Community members and followers may struggle with.
This is a Facebook Live Video you DO NOT want to miss, especially if you’re can relate with the following struggles:
-Not feeling good enough
– Overeating, binge eating or emotional eating
-Having to deal with a spouse who is trying to be supportive, but what he or she’s saying actually isn’t supportive
-Pleasing everyone to the point that your own needs are sacrificed
 -Body Image
In this hour long facebook live where my new friend and group trainer and coach, Chantel Glesman of South Edmonton FitBody Bootcamp interviews me on these topics.
This is information that I would provide in a 1:1 or group coaching session!  Of course everyone’s situation is a little different, but there are usually universal reasons to start considering the root cause of these struggles.
Let me know what your take-aways are or if you have questions that arise by posting in the comments OR hit reply back!  🙂
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Interested in Learning More on how to develop a  Mindset for a KickAss Life?
Join me on my virtual workshop on Sept 9 or live on Sept 16!

Mindset for a Kick-Ass Life Workshop

Kickass.jpgWhoohoo! I am offering a 1 day workshop called Mindset for A Kick Ass Life!

This personal and professional development course will be covering:

Tackling Your Inner-Critic:

  • How to tackle self-doubt, not feeling good enough, perfectionism, fears, etc.
  • Goal setting with Self-Love Mindset incorporated

The Psychology of Eating Basics 101

  • Basics of building a healthy relationship with food
  • Understanding how languaging about food matters and impacts you (e.g. good vs. bad food)
  • Understand what drives people to emotionally eat, overeating and binge eat
  • How to stop sabotaging healthy eating goals

Confidence vs. Bragging

  • How to love yourself without feeling like you are being conceited

Body Image

  • How to be body positive even if you want to transform your body

 

Supporting Others

  • How to approach others (loved ones, clients) who you suspect have eating and/or body image and low self-esteem issues and may need help

 

SUITABLE for ALL individuals (men, couples are welcome too!)
This is also BOTH a Personal and Professional Development Course, so for health & wellness professionals, this can help YOU so you can better support your clients.

Professionals, such as the following (but not limited to) would benefit from this course:
– Personal Trainers
– Yoga Teachers
– Holistic Nutritionists, Dieticians

Please Invite Your Clients so they can benefit too! 🙂

SPACE IS LIMITED!
We are hosting this 1-day event on the following days.
Sun, Jul 30 – LIVE in Edmonton, Alberta
Sat, Sep 16 – LIVE in Edmonton, Alberta
Sat, Sep 9 – ONLINE (accessible anywhere!)

For more details and registration, please click here

roz6Rosalyn Fung, M.Sc., is a Self-Love Coach who provides both personal and business development for women and entrepreneurs. She is founder of Holistic Body Love Coaching Inc. 

She is Founder of Holistic Body Love Coaching Inc.  Having a background as a Psychologist for the last 10 years and holding a  2nd degree blackbelt in karate, she knows what it takes to develop a mindset to successfully achieve your goals in life and business.

She also is Certified in Eating Psychology and Hakomi Method, a mindfulness approach to shifting limiting blocks.

She’s the go-to person to help you understand how to breakfree from food & body image struggles, as well as concerns related to: confidence, weight, self-image, intimate relationships, and relationship with money.

She also loves coaching women & entrepreneurs to get out of their own way so they can create their dream success.

Rosalyn knows that your overall relationship with yourself has a direct impact on the success of your life and business.

When you have a healthy and nourishing relationship with food and your body, self-care habits, and high self-worth, you create more balance and financial abundance in life and business.

Calling all Moms & Women: Join me in the Sexy Black Dress Challenge

Sexy is not about truly about what you look on the outside…it starts with how you feel on this INSIDE.
 
I’m all about embracing SEXY from a place of SELF-LOVE and SELF-WORTH. It’s about your mindset.
 
When you feel sexy on the inside, you start to also show up in a way that is alignment of that sexy energy. 
 
Sexuality is about the ENERGY you hold, it can stand on it’s own WITHOUT engaging in sexual acts. These are NOT the same.   Nor is sexy dressing skimpy and being half naked, like what our society would define as sexy. No, no, no…this is NOT what I’m talking about.
 
Think about it this way: There are people who do not fit what our society would see as physically “attractive”, yet they ooze a lot of magnetizing energy. And then there are some people who our society would see as physically “attractive” and they lack this magnetizing energy. Why? 
 
Because it’s all about the energy you hold- confidence, self-worth, happiness, joy, vibrant energy, grounded, reflective, present, charismatic, passionate, humble, humility, generous, kind, nurturing, connective….they SHOW UP in a way that vibrates peace, happy and freedom. This only can come from inside out. You cannot fake sexy. 
 
So with this knowledge, when I say Sexy, I mean it about how you SHOW UP in the world as attractive (whatever that means to you). Sexy is subjective and this is all about being in alignment of what sexy is to you! 
 
I know some of you may be feeling resistant to the word Sexy because it may bring up negative beliefs, memories and stuff for you- especially if you have issues with being attractive and getting attention, particularly from men. 
 
If this is you, I invite you to REFRAME, REDEFINE, RECLAIM your right to be sexy – and I’m happy to support you 1 on 1 if stuff comes up for you as you go through this challenge. In the meantime, I believe this challenge can help you RECLAIM and RECREATE that SEXY IS part of BEING EMPOWERED.
 
SoooOoooooo…..Are you ready to take a challenge to get the mindset and sexy body plan to fit in that Sexy Black Dress?
 
Can you allow yourself to slip into that Sexy Black Dress right now?
Imagine if you had a sexy body plan to help you release unwanted weight, increase your energy, so that you can be more present and show up in the best version of you!
 
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Join the 7 Day Challenge Now where she will show you how to turn the tables and ditch the diet mentality.
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CLICK HERE TO RECLAIMING your Sexy Self! 

Here’s the FOCUS!

Learn How to Jump Start Your Sexy Body Plan.

What you’ll get from this Free 7-Day Challenge:

1. A 24-page e-guide loaded with tips to help you get your body back!

2. Delicious, easy to prepare recipes you’ll love to eat!

3. A detailed shopping list to save you tons of time at the store

4. A 7-day suggested meal guide for breakfast, lunch, and dinner, so you don’t have to wonder what 
to eat to get the results you want

5. Tips on how to be sexy and confident

6. An online community of ladies waiting to rock this 7-day challenge with you!

7. Prizes & Giveaways each day! One lucky lady will win a 12 month group coaching package with a retreat to Sedona in May 2018

Join The Challenge Now look and feel fabulous, even if you are juggling work and home life non-stop, live the crazy life of a hard-working woman or mommy, have endless to-do list, and haven’t been on top of your eating habits forever.

I’m honoured to be invited to be part of this challenge as one of the guest coaches to help you get your Sexy Self On!

 

CLICK HERE TO RECLAIMING your Sexy Self! 

Let’s Do this- INVEST your TIME AND ENERGY INTO YOU!

SAY YES TO YOU!!!!

YOU ARE WORTH IT!!!! 

CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR SEXY ON!

In Abundant Self-Love & Joy,

Rosalyn Fung, M.Sc.
Self-Love Coaching for Women and Entrepreneurs

Offering Personal Development & Business Development

http://www.holisticbodylove.com

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My Self Love Interview with Nourishing Everyday

Whooohoo! 
I had the privilege to be interviewed by Holistic Nutritionist Clinical Practitioner, who also has a Registered Nurse background of over 20 years, and my friend, Shonda Holt of Nourishing Everyday. She has a goal of doing 1000 interviews. I had the honor and opportunity of being interviewed by her for her View of Hope Interviews. 
In this interview, Shonda asks me why I’m so passionate about inspiring and empowering people to love themselves and love their bodies. She also has me sharing some insightful tips on how to start thinking differently and practicing Self-Love. 
And she had some fun questions to ask me about my personal life and memories, so you can get to know me a little bit more up close and personal 😉 
Click the photo below to watch! 

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In Shonda’s own words: “I started this project to showcase amazing people in our world that have a vision/mission or passion to improve people’s physical, emotional, mental &/or spiritual health. Or, they have a mission/vision to improve the state of those things I believe we were given to care for such as the environment &/or animals.
My goal is to show you that there is hope. If you are struggling or find that some days the world feels dark and negative know that there are at least 1000 people who are spending their lives to make it a better place.”
you can check out my video here and check out the rest of interviews here . I encourage you to check out Shonda’s website, she’s got some awesome health programs! 
If you enjoyed what I shared, I have my freebie gift “8 Ways to Cope with Cravings & Manage Stress” in which you can DOWNLOAD HERE. 
You can also check out the Self-Love Course Happy, Healthy & Whole in Mind, Body & Soul that I mentioned in the interview here
In Abundant Self Love & Joy,
Rosalyn Fung, M.Sc.
Self Love Coach for Women & Entrepreneurs 

How I Went from Hating my Body to Loving My Body

Here’s a snippet of my own story of my body love journey: I sure hope this inspires you. ❤
I HATED MY BODY, ESPECIALLY MY BELLY!
Then, I decided to push my body, diet it, perfect it, and secretly binge ate ALOT….pushed my emotions down, beat myself up for eating outside my meal plan OR even foods that were on my meal plan but I ate like 1/2 a portion more (!!!!!) and it resulted in me getting my “then perfect body” in 2008 (bodybuilding)…and guess what?
I was even more anxious and obsessed about food:
-when I was going to eat next
-what I was going to eat next
-how many calories did I overeat
-how many hours i would need to work out to work it off…
-and feeling like my belly wasn’t flat enough,
-if my love handles were showing,
-did I look pregnant,
-spending hours in the change room trying to find clothes that made me look good…
I spent HOURS mentally and emotionally tortured by these thoughts…
I WAS A PRISONER IN MY “PERFECT” BODY.
AND THEN…
I went from seeing my stomach as disgusting, fat, jelly, gross, beating myself for eating, having no willpower, felt like I couldn’t figure out what the secret for a flat belly was because I couldn’t get one (unless I was starving myself) …
TO…
learning to accept my belly for it’s softness, it’s shape, it’s roundness, the sometimes definition I have, and the sometimes definition I don’t have…the ever changing shape of my belly….
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Even liking and appreciating my belly… to see how strong it is at it’s core, to be grateful that I have a healthy digestive system, to be grateful that a fuller belly for my body means my hormones are balanced…
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Understanding on a SOUL level what my belly means. It’s the 3rd chakra.
The third chakra is the center of willpower. This chakra is all about the perception of who you are.
The gift of this chakra is sensing your personal power, being confident, responsible, and reliable.
It is the center of your self-esteem, your willpower, self-discipline, as well as warmth in your personality.
Seeing the abundance my belly has, the loving abundant energy it holds, the fact that when my belly is not flat, I am balanced, I am happy….I am CONFIDENT, I AM OK WITH WHO I AM.
And when I truly accepted, appreciated, liked, to loved my belly in all it’s forms & energies …
I felt proud and confident enough to rock it out on the cover of a Women’s International Fitness magazine, GORGO Fitness Magazine.
I AM STRONG.
I AM WORTHY.
I AM VALUABLE.
I AM POWERFUL.
I AM LOVE.
I AM LIGHT.
I AM INTUITIVE.
I AM CREATIVE.
I AM HAPPY.
I AM JOY.
I AM FREEEEEEE!!!!!!!
In my Highest Divine Purpose,
I AM A CHANNEL OF SELF-LOVE.
How’s that for BODY LOVE?
if I can do it, you can too ❤ ❤ ❤
Let me show you how!
Join me in my Self-Love Course:
Next class: Steps to Cultivating a Loving, Positive Body Image!
roz6Rosalyn Fung, M.Sc. is Founder of Holistic Body Love Coaching Inc.
She is a Self-Love Coach for Women & Entrepreneurs.
She has a background in being a Registered Psychologist for the past 10 years, is Certified in Eating Psychology and has facilitated live and online Food, Body Image ad Self-LOve Programs.
Rosalyn offers  1 on 1 coaching and group coaching with clients through video conferencing.
You can book in a FREE strategy coaching session here